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Autumn & Winter Rituals.

There’s something different about autumn compared to all the other months. It’s almost like the country is holding its breath.

It’s a time of making decisions about change. Jobs, relationships, houses and ourselves. The holidays and Christmas crazies are over. We have had a break and sometimes things we have put up with or put off are just no longer acceptable.

New routines are established, at work, home and school and there’s a whole year ahead of us. A whole year to plan and do anything we want…

When summer is gone and autumn shows it’s delicious colours, it’s time to think about how we live, inside our homes. There’s a slow retreat from outdoors to the cosiness of roaring fires, early nights and bottled sunshine glowing from our windows.

I’ve lived in warm and wet Auckland for 45+ of my 52 years so prepping for winter seems unnecessary if all we do is pull out a jumper and the heater and maybe change the bedding. But it could be more than that.

Why not start a series of autumn rituals? Over the next few weeks we have the opportunity to design our autumn experience and plan for a winter of home pleasures and fun.

The simple things I remember as a child are my mother and I bringing the firewood closer to the house and stacking it near the back door so it would stay dry. She would get the chimney cleaned and start looking at soup recipes. Puzzles and board games would be unearthed and the dust blown away. Being a mad knitter, jumpers would grow from her needles and she’d talk of snowy English winters.

In the South Island autumn and winter preparations are far more rigorous than here in Auckland but we do still have the opportunity to prepare our home for blowy, wet, chilly short days.

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After a long hot dry summer of trying to keep cool there’s likely to be a build up of things around the house that we’ve been too hot to deal with or shortly will not be needed.

Autumn Tidy Up.

This season between the summer heat and nippy cold is the perfect opportunity to start your decluttering for winter. Make your Autumn Tidy Up a yearly event. Each March or April start to think about how you would like your living areas to feel and be lived in over the coming colder months. Are they full of piles of stuff covered in dust? Mountains of toys? Is your cosy study so crammed you can barely get to your desk? Are there 72 mugs, scattered around the house? Start slowly, you have heaps of time!

Repeat this process as often as you can, scheduling it if necessary to make sure it gets done.

Prepare Your Storage.

Now is the time to sort through your summer stuff and store it safely for next year. Start soon, and it will be done soon.

Think Big.

I am so happy for a new client of mine called Sarah who is taking this year to refurbish her house, declutter and organise it, to make her and her family’s home life better. She’s lived in her house since her last baby was born 5 1/2 years ago, now she has a dog, two busy little boys, a husband who works away from home for months and in-laws staying half of the year.

Now her boys are bigger she can dedicate some time and energy to making her house work for her and not worry quite so much about spills on the carpet and scribbles on the walls. She is the main carer and keeper of the house as well as working outside her home. She is OVER the inefficient kitchen, overflowing home hub and overwhelming clutter in the playroom. She wants a thorough clear out of family clutter, new practical storage and a fresh interior.

It’s time! It’s a huge job, when I wrote up the timeline of everything that needs to be done and when, it looked daunting but it’s easily broken down into manageable chunks and also it’s so EXCITING!

What would make this year or just this coming winter better for YOU? A modern stylish gas fire? Refreshing the paint inside the house? New curtains perhaps? This is an investment in your happiness and wellbeing!

Rituals.

Whether you are wrangling a family or living the single life there are lots of lovely things you can do for yourself and your family to make autumn and winter something to look forward to. Take a moment to think about the things you used to enjoy in the chillier seasons when you were young. Lets do them now!

Rituals like these are purposeful, pleasurable habits that create memories, bring comfort, structure and familiarity. Our busy modern lives are often lacking these things as we race from one thing to another or struggle to find peace and calm.

If you have any other ideas for making Autumn and Winter more fun, please let me know in the comments! I’d love to hear from you.

Counting the blessings of sunny days and saving them up for winter.

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